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Hello everyone , This is Aman patidar welcomes you back to Aman patidar blog ,today we are going to discuss about the book seven habits of highly effective people . Till now what we were doing is I was explaining the whole book and that is somewhere unjust to the highness of author. So ,here is what the book is all about ,the book starts with something like dependence then from there to independence then from there to interdependence . This are the habits for creating an effective humanity ,so everything which has been talked their is about EFFECTIVENESS and creating a life at level higher then the particular .  First three habits are the habits for creating an effective person , which author calls PRIVATE VICTORY  AND the three habits were; 1. Be proactive : it is to be aware of our environment and our inner self similar to self-awareness. 2. Begin with end in mind :  this habit is all about creating an personal fruitful life by centering ourselves onto princ...

Destination determines the Direction It's saying most of us know but what it really meant only few knows. Now, imagine yourself that you are driving a car and you are just going and keep going but you don't know where you want to go ... Now ,what is going to happen ,you will finish no where, I repeat ,no where The same is with life ,it's so easy to get trapped in this viscous circle of unknowing ness and don't know anything... It's so easy to climb the ladder to high till the top and know at the end that it was the wrong wall at which the ladder was leaned . So ,the mystery box is that if you know where you want to finish it's easy to lean the ladder at the right wall and enjoy life . The same is what author want us to know in his book the seven habits of highly effective people  habit number 2 BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND. SO, what he is basically conveying is from habit one we know how our mind works ,what are our programs are and how we react to the si...

#  Be the change You want to see in The world . Mahatma Gandhi  The reason why most of the people stuck in their lives is because they do not understand this basic paradigm that they are driven by situations that's They are chosen to act not they act by their choice . The difference between human and animal is we human has power to response as per over choice ,by identifying proper stimulis and respond accordingly ... Proactivity is something like freedom to choose . PROACTIVE ;  The people who are driven by their own values and core eternalized belofs ,these are the people who take their environment with them they carry their own energy cloud and whomever they encounter they get into their hearts . Here is the one story which is going to clear the whole picture for you .... " Ali was a teenager kid when he was sold into  slave market and he was bought by an Sheikh for his household ,but he was proactive person and instead of complaining about his situ...

People don't do what you tell them to do they do what you show them to do . There is a very interesting law to live a balanced life which is P/PC law .which means ratio of the production to production capabilities Suppose ,you are a genius coder you know various programming languages and has a great passion regarding coding ,which is certified in your college degree and various course certificates ,that is your Production Capabilities. But ,you are jobless and doing nothing just watching sitting on your couch and giving unnecessary opinion on next elections ,that causes your Productivity Zero. So in real or reel life whichever you are living you need to understand this that if you have certain skills which can be useful to put into production and still your production is zero then you will become a lazy dude and unnecessary weight on earth ,you have stuff to do ,go work. Further we can understand it by an example; such that I want my little sister to clean up her room which i...

IF YOU SOW AN THOUGHT YOU REAP ACTION ,IF YOU SOW AN ACTION YOU REAP HABIT ,IF YOU SOW AN HABIT YOU REAP CHARACTER ,IF YOU SOW AN CHARACTER YOU REAP DESTINY. What we repeatedly do consciously or unconsciously which give us the sense of pleasure in doing that is called HABIT . Habits are activities which gave us the sense of pleasure to either our body or either our mind ,there are some habits which develops the beautiful character of person like reading , exploring while there are also some habits which destroys the wonderful empire may already existed ...like drugging, alcoholism etc. So whatever the thought and idea there maybe is you should develop an ritual ,a habit of that particular action to get the required results ...and to know what your habits are you need to identify your PARADIGM. Habit Loop : Now the habits are there because of the functioning of basal ganglia or we can say the information stored in subconscious mind . Habits work on the cycle of CUE, ROUTINE,REWA...

Albert Einstein says ; IF YOU HAVE PROBLEM TODAY BECAUSE OF PAST DECISION THEN THAT CPARADIGM : BRAIN PROGRAMMING.ANNOT BE SOLVED BY SAME LEVEL OF THINKING. So ,we are here to talk about paradigm which means; the way we see the problem not visually , but how we perceive the problem and how do we interpret it ........ Human brain has several parts biologically but in psychology we basically studies two parts 1. Conscious and 2. Subconscious Conscious part of the brain is like internal storage of the phone which is something which we have known or the information we have known in our brain ,let's say : while you are driving car and all you see is the car coming in opposite lane and vehicles in yours lane your brain is conscious to use accelerate ,brake and other indicators while driving as per need and you are in the total control of yourself ,you know what you are doing and how , that is being in present and the part of brain works for this situations is conscious brain Other ...